Today’s article brings up some importance in the world of online dating. It pays to be accessible yet approachable, so get your brows fixed and make it a priority to read this entirely. It’s an article where I check whether being accessible and approachable will earns you a mark in the beginning which leads to being an excellent companion and finally an excellent date. I believe being accessible is vital and I’ve heard it described as the single most attractive quality for men seeking women. I’m saying this because many people are too closed and have this idea that being closed means being alone, dead or imprisoned.
More than ever, being accessible online should pay heed to the saying “Haze ‘Em Straight” which is set to involve dramatically increasing one’s success odds in online dating, as well as enhance ones overall online dating experience.
Online, it’s a jungle out there and only by seeking out help for yourself can one make sure that online dating is going to work for him. Not having the right resources, information and advice present to one can prove to be disastrous in this regard. Even the Suggestion Box that sites last few attempts at presenting can sometimes end up being a hindrance. Hiring a matchmaker and having him do all or part of the work for you may sound great in theory but in reality is far from ideal practice as it is simply not effective in everyday life. Being able to get a recent picture of the person and being able to see how he or she relates to you should form the primary basis for your decision whether or not to go ahead and select an actual date.
Waiting for someone to DJ you over the summer season could work out for some, but Long Term Relationshipsneed to be sought and created. Dating is done in the fast forward mode where it is considered to be a commitments from the onset and one cannot breaker it, so getting your own feet wet to experience the chemistry first and see if it’s going to get bigger, is considered to be in the getting-to-know-you stage. There is always a reason and possibility that one may prefer to date around before deciding to finally choose a closer match.
Everything at the beginning is a test and being accessible starts from the bottom of one’s self-esteem and well being. Choosing to be open, exposes one to the potential of rejection from the start, so being accessible literally starts with how one presents themselves. It’s like testing a piece of paper for its creases before attempting to read it. It’s like, if one tries to read it instantly with no creases, the stress breaks away from the paper making it un-scribable. Here are some additional creases that may familiarize you with being accessible.
1. Expensive hair cuts
2. Styled hair
3. Western-style facial hair
4. Giving one’s hair an unnecessarily optizoom style
5. Excessive well trimming
6. Focially supervised hair changes
7. Slightly crooked nose, big ears, large lips etc
8. Frequent visitors
9. Boring looks
10. Smelly feet
11. Pets
12. breakfast in bed on the right side only
13. journals
14. extreme coffee or tea drinking
15. eating in a fast car
16. weight gain
17. excessive drinking
18. spending money on frivolous things
19. smoking
20. grooming completely needy with hair, skin, nails, and other neglected areas
21. spending time hanging around with imaginary friends
22. fat acceptance
23. use of annoying phone features such as vibrate or Send TipPlus
24. always wanting to know what the latest trend or celebrity trend is
25. spending 8 hours in a gym, 4 hours talking on the phone, 4 hours texting, emailing family, friends when you are at work, and 4 hours shopping when you are home.
26. self- Eckart on the toilet verses an actual bathroom with a sink and toilet bowl
27. always wanting to look good for someone
28. very moody
29. restlessness in crowds
30. poor recall of last date
31. sends out small child like possessions
32. over negative attitude in social situations
33. shares negative experiences with every client
34. hates to ask for anything in return even in dates
35. has low self esteem and often feels inadequate
36. hot headed and irritable on the phone especially when talking to old girlfriends or boyfriends
37. ” Hope all is well. Hope you got home okay.” (Three little words zip up one’s ego. How did they not notice that I am in a bad mood?!)
38. ” You know I love you. Why are you mad? Why are you making me mad?
